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Thee_Mad_Catter t1_iuk5ryb wrote

Hold that person down and let the child kick back

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LoveWithUke t1_iuk5t5o wrote

Its one of the worst things a parent/guardian can do

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Doofzig t1_iuk5wl0 wrote

I’d normally say it’s wrong, but my house my rules. Really no romance of any kind until you’re an adult or gone.

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riceburner22 t1_iuk5x8m wrote

I would think you’re a piece of shit parent for not supporting your child no matter what it was. That’s just my opinion.

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Draklor t1_iuk61i5 wrote

You should be arrested for abandonment and child abuse.

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Passn_wind t1_iuk628g wrote

If you kick your child out.... you are a bad parent.

If you do it because they find love in a way you disagree with.... you don't deserve to the air you are breathing.

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Own_Acanthocephala0 t1_iuk66f3 wrote

If their religion is more important than their care and love for their own child then they have a big problem and should never ever have been parents in the first place.

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StonksStink t1_iuk67di wrote

My opinion of you just plummeted

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[deleted] t1_iuk67kb wrote

Anyone who would do this should be charged with a capital crime and sent to a penal colony to live out their days with a population of lawless sodomites because I love irony as much as I hate these people

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Draklor t1_iuk6d2q wrote

Replying to WeirdSponge16 (#412,026)

I see. In the UK 18 is an adult so I guess that’s where the confusion is.

Just plain abusive then.

On the positive side I first left home at 17 and it didn’t hurt me that much.

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Ambitious_Double3078 t1_iuk6h9i wrote

You are a disgusting parent if you kick them out for that, or for anything else for that matter. You love your kids no matter what, that’s your job as a parent.

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official_bagel t1_iuk6hav wrote

Replying to WeirdSponge16 (#411,858)

>What if they are religious?

Then the parents are shit practitioners of whatever religion they follow. Imagine calling yourself a Christian and kicking out your child because of their sexual preferences. Definitely missed the whole "love your neighbor" lesson.

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No_Opposite_1383 t1_iuk6hcy wrote

i dont even know why you would feel the need to post a question like this. it's fucked up, end of.

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M_Grubb t1_iuk6kut wrote

The quick way of letting your kids and anyone you know what a backward piece of shit you are.

If they were ginger on the other hand...

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Millenniauld t1_iuk6m72 wrote

Replying to WeirdSponge16 (#412,051)

Legal doesn't mean right. Legal doesn't mean moral. Slavery was legal.

If you choose to follow some storybook sky God who literally "doesn't do anything for people because he needs them to believe without proof" against the child you brought into this world, a child that the God in question apparently made with a plan KNOWING how they would feel regarding attraction to others.... Then you don't deserve your child. You're a monster.

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CrispyLemonMan t1_iuk6n07 wrote

Dick move, but if you're that bad of a person, the kid's better off without you

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KotexAvenger t1_iuk6o1o wrote

As a parent, I think its deplorable. And religion is the thinnest veil one can use to cover being an absolute garbage human being.

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standitlikeaman t1_iuk6oqd wrote

It means you’re fucked in the head and the child will be better off in the long run

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Klawtwo t1_iuk6pjz wrote

Parents who kick out their child for being LGBT+ (even if the family is religious, which already doesn't excuse them since their own sacred texts often state to love no matter what,) are just mad because of selfish reasons. "My kid isn't who I wanted them to be! They were suppose to be me but better! And now they're rejecting the image I'm forcing onto them, so I must kick them out."

Don't have kids if you're worried about that kid having their own life. Maybe try a pet like a dog, which is blindly loyal.

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The_Funkhouse t1_iuk6q34 wrote

If you’re going to be a cunt to your child, don’t have children in the first place.

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PNWBoilermaker2019 t1_iuk6qbu wrote

I’d say the kid would be better off not living under a toxic roof like that, but homelessness is no joke. Massive dick move and makes you a horrible human being.

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StarStrike-_- t1_iuk6ql8 wrote

Kinda bogus but kinda understandable. Didn't raise u to be gay.

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duane534 t1_iuk6vjy wrote

Anyone who does that is human garbage.

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phat666jesus t1_iuk6w6w wrote

Personally I'm not gonna kick my kid out for being LGBTQ. But if their vegan they gotta go this is a meat eating house.

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Redditgreninja t1_iuk6wh4 wrote

I’m pretty sure it’s dickish to kick out your child for that specific reason

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Akul_Tesla t1_iuk6xj1 wrote

There is exactly one circumstance where without any additional action on the part of the child it is permissible

If you know another member of the family will attempt to honor kill them aka to protect them and in that case you will need to still support them but if it's to get them safe from a monstrous member of the family that is the only acceptable circumstance furthermore this should be a temporary thing while you get a safe way to be with a an away from the monster or some family member

You guys might think this is ridiculous thing but you got to remember there are multiple countries where they will be executed so if it's to protect them in those places then you need to do what you need to do

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MaturasPL t1_iuk6xlv wrote

If it's a child (under 18) then totally unacceptable, the parents are obliged to take care of it. If it's an adult, then the parents can kick them out for any reason (or no reason at all). Doesn't necessarily mean they should, though.

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jimmycreddit t1_iuk6zo3 wrote

The most probable reason people even think this way is because of religion. FUCK religion.

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_PocketChange_ t1_iuk77zi wrote

What are you looking for with this kind of question?

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Old_Expert_23 t1_iuk7ge2 wrote

A God who hates you for how he made you isn’t worth worshipping.

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Akul_Tesla t1_iuk7mqr wrote

Replying to Passn_wind (#412,001)

Hold up on that second part

There is a situation where if your child finds love you should kick them out and that is if they're stealing the spouse of another one of your children

There was a case on either r/aita or r/relationship where the brother's boyfriend and the brother tricked the sister into thinking he was her boyfriend so that she could be the beard for 7 years in order to manipulate boyfriends parents for money in that case the parents should have turned against brother as he fundamentally ruined his sister's life

Keep in mind that's the type of scenario that could potentially lead to the suicide of the good child so no there's an exception to that rule

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caribe5 t1_iuk7tkh wrote

“Being” LGBT isn’t something you are as in you are “jew” a “cristian” an “atheist” or a “negro”, it isn’t a believe nor a rebelion, nor an ethnic group, acting like it’s a group of people different from anybody else or “just a fase” is missleading, the only reason they have become a group of people is to fight for the understanding of what it means to have been born the same but treated differently.

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Fearless_Fan8743 t1_iuk88qf wrote

From what I’ve read, discrimination is sinful, but child abandonment takes that up to 11

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MeinHuTopG t1_iuk8fis wrote

I'm commenting from a place where I'm imagining I'm the child, I will 100% be ousted, no questions asked, it's not even about religion, it's about the mindset more or less. And the logic lies somewhere in the lines of "if you're old enough to do/say 'this' , then you're old enough to fend for yourself anyway" The part of the community I come from, if i was indeed a part of LGBT and had the requirement/need to come out, I would rather be a voluntary asexual for life than risk being alienated by the people who spent at the very least 18 years raising me. For me, their word/opinion > my opinion. I'm not part of the 'west' so people from more conservative societies in the non western world might understand where this is coming from.

My opinion on kicking out a child is sad, but it's not like I've not seen cases of it happening. Kicking out and alienating the child is actually the nicer punishments lol.

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MathematicianOld1117 t1_iuk9s56 wrote

A vile, hurtful, deplorable decision.

Take responsibility for the spawn you churned out, birthers! Don't leave it up to everyone else to accept, nurture, and sustain what you've rejected for reasons ranging from feeling awkward to declaring your own flesh and blood is an abomination before your fruitcake god.

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SuvenPan t1_iukarja wrote

They are textbook example of toxic parents.

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crankenfranken t1_iukazza wrote

tl;dr It is wrong to do that.

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Kicking out a child purely for being (or thinking they might be) LGBT is a fundamental violation of the role of a parent, which is to care for, feed, clothe, and house your child until such time as they are capable of doing so for themselves. You made the child, so you bear the responsibility of preparing it for life as an adult, no matter whether its sexual orientation is one you despise or if they don't happen to like your favourite sport.

I'd also suggest that such a parent would likely be in violation of the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child.

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ImANuckleChut t1_iukbgg4 wrote

If your love as a parent comes with a stipulation, you never were a parent to begin with.

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DatBoi_Steve t1_iukc0ao wrote

So from reading all the comments and taking a look at your profile I guess you already did kick your child out and it's because you grew up very religious and thought it was the right thing to do?

I think you already got the hang of the direction the opinions are going here. But what I'm now interested in is, after getting all this feedback, will you actually consider trying to take your child back? (given it actually wants to come back)

Do you see yourself really accepting your child for who he/she is, even if it means reconsidering the way you are interpreting your religion?

At last I wanna say that, given you seem to be in this very religious bubble, it's a good thing you are stepping out of it and get some other opinions on this.

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