SilhouetteCommenter t1_iuk8uj9 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 11:34 PM

Lonely when around people or lonely when alone?

If it's lonely when alone, i find that you actually genuinely have to like being alone and enjoy being alone.

If it's lonely when surrounded by others, maybe it's if you have "friends" who aren't really your friends?

batinthebelfry5 t1_iuka11v wrote on October 31, 2022 at 11:43 PM

This one cuts deep.

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SilhouetteCommenter t1_iukarbe wrote on October 31, 2022 at 11:49 PM

Yeah, it could be you get your energy by being with people. That's how one of my friend is. She's an extrovert and likes being around people. But if she's alone for awhile, she gets lonely. For her, company is just better than being solo. While me, I enjoy being alone and can tolerate being around people for a certain amount of time lol.