Spending as much money as I did on him

Trusting her with my heart and my secrets

Thinking that a “good guy” would be the same guy who would date a 15 year old while in his 20s. No “good” adult dates a minor like that

Oh mood except best friend

A mistake many of us has made 😫

Sorry to ask but what happened if you want to share?

I’m so sorry that you went through this, wishing you healing

Getting married at all. I knew it wasn’t right and I still went through with it.

I can’t really say regrets because if I didn’t stay as long as I did I wouldn’t have my four beautiful kids I have. But if i pretend there was no kids involved it would’ve been staying with after he got another girl pregnant while we were together. Also staying with him after he almost killed me.

If you want the full story I have an AMA posted on it but basically he sex trafficked me and abused me

Thank you

Ever meeting him. He is stalking, harassing, bullying, revenge porn etc. It’s absolutely the most afraid I’ve ever been of an ex and I’ve dated my fair share of shit men.

I’m sorry that you were treated this way, I hope that you and your kids are safe and in a better situation now. You did the very best that you could’ve with the situation that you were in, sending you love.

Letting him lead me on then take my virginity. Only to find out that he was sleeping with 3 other women.

Not your fault at all. You gave him your trust and he chose to take advantage of it, that is a reflection of his shitty character and not a detriment to who you are. You deserve so much better, someday you will find someone who’s worthy of your love and trust

I have. My husband is kind and caring. He has been my biggest supporter and I his.

So glad that you found your person <3 I’m sorry that your previous partner treated you that way. I’m sure he’s gotten his karma

Sleeping with him again years later. I left the relationship feeling like I took control and he finally realised he hadn't treated me as he should. We lost touch for a few years, but reconnected as friends who seemed to have matured and moved forward so we met up.

It took me back to feeling 17 again and it slipped back to how it was. We slept together and j felt all confused so when I reached out afterwards to talk about that, he ghosted me and I regretted losing what I gained when I left.