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strangerNstrangeland t1_j2fhnfo wrote
And not that non-apology- apology bs. You know “I’m sorry you think I hurt you…”. Kinda crap
growingcoolly t1_j2fifmi wrote
"I'm sorry you feel that way."
strangerNstrangeland t1_j2fk0q9 wrote
Ugh.
“I’m sorry you think your feelings were hurt”.
“I’m sorry you think things happened that way and feel like you’ve been hurt”.
Take your gaslight and gtfo
oh_Rip t1_j2ffmmb wrote
Dont be an asshole
peachieme t1_j2ffq4n wrote
Practicing empathy, trying to understand the other person
wannabuyawhat OP t1_j2fguje wrote
Yes! Good one! I think we are quick to assume the worst in others, but trying to understand them before judgement would be less assholey.
strangerNstrangeland t1_j2fhvzt wrote
Recognize that much hurtful behavior comes from people who are hurt, and when in the receiving end, be empathetic and don’t escalate
myxomytozis t1_j2ffrfe wrote
They can stop doomscrolling reddit all day. That would be the number 1 solution.
peachyqueen45 t1_j2fgeyb wrote
Be more open about everything
wannabuyawhat OP t1_j2fgypq wrote
I have a hard time with this one. I was raised to keep your feeling in and they will pass. I’m working on being more vulnerable.
freetibet69 t1_j2fjgit wrote
Listen
sharodnae t1_j2fjidg wrote
Learn about active listening and apply it. So many fights happen because we listen to respond, not understand.
Domillomew t1_j2ffkma wrote
Think before they speak/act.
Actually acknowledge wrongdoings.
Apologize for wrongdoings.