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DahvRom t1_j2fud68 wrote

Yes, if they don't stink. I've met cigarette smokers who smell like an ashtray and I've met smokers who I never would have guessed touched a cigarette. That's my big gripe with smokers, so if that's not an issue I don't have a problem with it.

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WasNotTaken69 t1_j2fuepe wrote

Yes, as long as they don't smoke around me. Don't need to get lung cancer.

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12-32fan t1_j2fuoh6 wrote

Sure, I was married to a smoker, I’m allergic to cigarette smoke and I have asthma he was always careful and didn’t smoke around me

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ReekitoManjifico t1_j2fvglf wrote

Sure. not a smoker nyself but i won't turn down a vanilla cigar, besides it's her body and depending on how much she smokes i find it attractrive.

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aYe_iTs_nEMo t1_j2fvo0p wrote

i once took an acid trip, stayed up all night and was awake all morning. around 8-9am, my grandfather came outside to have a smoke.

his lungs have been pretty bad, but…..watching him wheeze and cough his lungs out after every puff, and proceed to do it over and over again until the cigarrete was gone, and possibly light another……i was literally watching this man kill himself. it was very bothering to see, especially on the comedown of an acid trip.

as a pot smoker, that made me really question my decisions. not only would i see be suffering, but my kids and wife as well. imagine your kids literally watching you kill yourself. i still watch my mom kill herself every day. its heartbreaking.

thats why i stopped and would advise anyone else to quit as well. you are not only hurting yourself.

so to answer your question, no. i would not take a smoker seriously in a long term relationship.

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ElisThaBesth t1_j2fvopt wrote

God fucking NO. Growing up around my dad was enough.

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duemilauno t1_j2fvq6d wrote

Personally I have never even tried a cigarette simply because I never had the desire to do so. Dating a smoker wouldn't be a problem per se but probably I would end up trying to change their mind in the long run.

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FelicitySmoak_ t1_j2fvuzh wrote

No, I don't like the smell and I'd prefer to be with someone that values themselves enough to not commit slow suicide

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honeyonbiscuits t1_j2fvyn0 wrote

Nooo. So many reasons why not…the biggest though, would be that we clearly differ on a very important life philosophy. I strive to live as healthy as possible in all facets of my life…it’s just important to me that I take care of myself. I couldn’t be with a smoker.

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DD_Spudman t1_j2fw356 wrote

No. I hate the smell and would prefer if neither of us got cancer.

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TypicalAd3012 t1_j2fw6ar wrote

Hell naw. They often stink, they put harmful shit in their bodies (which is stupid as f, and annoying) they often smoke around people and don’t give a f that the putrid smoke may bother or harm someone who do cares. 100% a deal breaker.

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Schmelbell t1_j2fwfta wrote

Nope. Not only would they be gross to kiss, but if things got serious, then I wouldn’t want to deal with the slow death and medical bills associated with lung cancer.

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Ladybirdatl t1_j2fwghn wrote

No. It took me several years to successfully quit smoking. And, it's been like twenty years since then. Not bringing that back into my life.

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cyclingzh t1_j2fwi51 wrote

Never.

It's filthy and smells horrible.

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-Shoebill- t1_j2fwsj5 wrote

Yes* but with caveats. Not in the house and not in an enclosed space. That's how you get a smoker where you can't tell they do since they're not standing in it.

Mouth hygiene would be more important. Don't like kissing smoke mouth. Can't be too many a day. I'm okay with a steady habit like one b4 work 1 after work. A few more on days off. You lack discipline with the addiction and edge closer to pack a day, I'm out.

I used to so I get why someone would.

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jesuseatsbees t1_j2fx3yq wrote

No. I did years ago and his breath was fucking rank every time he had a smoke.

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not-a-realperson t1_j2fx82u wrote

Not really. I was dating someone who smoked and it was really annoying when they had to take a cigarette break every hour during a date.

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bananarammers t1_j2fxlwl wrote

As an ex smoker I could not. I understand it but I can’t be around it and forget about kissing a smoker. I’ve tried but it just doesn’t work!

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