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DahvRom t1_j2fud68 wrote
Yes, if they don't stink. I've met cigarette smokers who smell like an ashtray and I've met smokers who I never would have guessed touched a cigarette. That's my big gripe with smokers, so if that's not an issue I don't have a problem with it.
SumerianProgRocker t1_j2fuee0 wrote
Nope....deal breaker!
WasNotTaken69 t1_j2fuepe wrote
Yes, as long as they don't smoke around me. Don't need to get lung cancer.
redaccnsfw t1_j2fufxe wrote
If she smokes she pokes
Evening-Ad8468 t1_j2fugtb wrote
Of course, just don’t smoke in the house lol.
Carrotcake789 t1_j2fuiw0 wrote
No, I dont like the smell
Fluffy-Doubt-3547 t1_j2ful99 wrote
No. It's gross.
Fluffy-Doubt-3547 t1_j2fumfx wrote
You can get 3rd hand smoke
HenarNL t1_j2fumw2 wrote
No. It's gross.
12-32fan t1_j2fuoh6 wrote
Sure, I was married to a smoker, I’m allergic to cigarette smoke and I have asthma he was always careful and didn’t smoke around me
SweetEmmaG t1_j2fup2e wrote
No, I can't stand the smell.
ReekitoManjifico t1_j2fvglf wrote
Sure. not a smoker nyself but i won't turn down a vanilla cigar, besides it's her body and depending on how much she smokes i find it attractrive.
Robin_to_the_meadow t1_j2fvn60 wrote
I wouldn’t mind.
aYe_iTs_nEMo t1_j2fvo0p wrote
i once took an acid trip, stayed up all night and was awake all morning. around 8-9am, my grandfather came outside to have a smoke.
his lungs have been pretty bad, but…..watching him wheeze and cough his lungs out after every puff, and proceed to do it over and over again until the cigarrete was gone, and possibly light another……i was literally watching this man kill himself. it was very bothering to see, especially on the comedown of an acid trip.
as a pot smoker, that made me really question my decisions. not only would i see be suffering, but my kids and wife as well. imagine your kids literally watching you kill yourself. i still watch my mom kill herself every day. its heartbreaking.
thats why i stopped and would advise anyone else to quit as well. you are not only hurting yourself.
so to answer your question, no. i would not take a smoker seriously in a long term relationship.
ElisThaBesth t1_j2fvopt wrote
God fucking NO. Growing up around my dad was enough.
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duemilauno t1_j2fvq6d wrote
Personally I have never even tried a cigarette simply because I never had the desire to do so. Dating a smoker wouldn't be a problem per se but probably I would end up trying to change their mind in the long run.
FelicitySmoak_ t1_j2fvuzh wrote
No, I don't like the smell and I'd prefer to be with someone that values themselves enough to not commit slow suicide
honeyonbiscuits t1_j2fvyn0 wrote
Nooo. So many reasons why not…the biggest though, would be that we clearly differ on a very important life philosophy. I strive to live as healthy as possible in all facets of my life…it’s just important to me that I take care of myself. I couldn’t be with a smoker.
DD_Spudman t1_j2fw356 wrote
No. I hate the smell and would prefer if neither of us got cancer.
TypicalAd3012 t1_j2fw6ar wrote
Hell naw. They often stink, they put harmful shit in their bodies (which is stupid as f, and annoying) they often smoke around people and don’t give a f that the putrid smoke may bother or harm someone who do cares. 100% a deal breaker.
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SimpoKaiba t1_j2fwfnr wrote
A girl with 3 hands? I'm in
Schmelbell t1_j2fwfta wrote
Nope. Not only would they be gross to kiss, but if things got serious, then I wouldn’t want to deal with the slow death and medical bills associated with lung cancer.
Ladybirdatl t1_j2fwghn wrote
No. It took me several years to successfully quit smoking. And, it's been like twenty years since then. Not bringing that back into my life.
cyclingzh t1_j2fwi51 wrote
Never.
It's filthy and smells horrible.
Fluffy-Doubt-3547 t1_j2fwjj8 wrote
Do you honestly know what 3rd hand smoke is? If not that's fine. But I feel like you don't
princesacar0lina t1_j2fwm93 wrote
Lo pensaria, xq a los fumadores les apesta la boca
-Shoebill- t1_j2fwsj5 wrote
Yes* but with caveats. Not in the house and not in an enclosed space. That's how you get a smoker where you can't tell they do since they're not standing in it.
Mouth hygiene would be more important. Don't like kissing smoke mouth. Can't be too many a day. I'm okay with a steady habit like one b4 work 1 after work. A few more on days off. You lack discipline with the addiction and edge closer to pack a day, I'm out.
I used to so I get why someone would.
jesuseatsbees t1_j2fx3yq wrote
No. I did years ago and his breath was fucking rank every time he had a smoke.
not-a-realperson t1_j2fx82u wrote
Not really. I was dating someone who smoked and it was really annoying when they had to take a cigarette break every hour during a date.
___Phreak___ t1_j2fx9ag wrote
It's a hard no. It's a vile habit
bananarammers t1_j2fxlwl wrote
As an ex smoker I could not. I understand it but I can’t be around it and forget about kissing a smoker. I’ve tried but it just doesn’t work!
uglystupidworthless- t1_j2fucp8 wrote
Sure