Swimming-Rough-9514 OP t1_j6p7sjs wrote
Reply to comment by DMmeOffensiveJokesPP in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514
Life goals and mindset were extremely similar. Connection was amazing.
I just was not able to be super vulnerable and give my all at the time, because of past experiences.
And so I fucked it up because of that and now I can’t seem to forgive myself for not giving it the full chance it deserved.
DMmeOffensiveJokesPP t1_j6p8bjl wrote
if (they) truly understood, I think they would've let it go for a bit, not giving it your all at all times isn't a mistake, everyone has their on and off times. If they can't give you that then it probably wasn't gonna work out
Swimming-Rough-9514 OP t1_j6pab7y wrote
It was a while, I never had a real relationship before I really didn't know what I was doing.
DMmeOffensiveJokesPP t1_j6pbkqy wrote
ugh I feel you. I'm sharing my opinions while I'm finishing up with highschool realizing I have no clue how to treat someone properly
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