Swimming-Rough-9514 OP t1_j6pc0q2 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 11:05 PM

Reply to comment by BekahBeks in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514

:/ I'm having a hard time I don't know if I'll ever truly move on from this one.

BekahBeks t1_j6pcmvu wrote on January 31, 2023 at 11:09 PM

Were you able to open up to them about these feelings? Or do you think you would be able to do that? If you did, do you think that there might be a chance to try again with the relationship?

Swimming-Rough-9514 OP t1_j6pd6ba wrote on January 31, 2023 at 11:12 PM

I wish.

She kind of moved on quickly after she broke it off and started seeing someone else.

BekahBeks t1_j6pgj4d wrote on January 31, 2023 at 11:35 PM

Ugh.. that’s really rough. If she was able to move on so quickly after breaking up with you, then maybe that relationship wasn’t meant to stay as a part of your life long term. Don’t lose hope that you’ll find a great relationship with someone who’s amazing after this one. Sometimes it just takes a while. Hang in there!