To be fair, just because you enjoy things he enjoys doesnt mean you dont or cant enjoy your own things too. Videogames or reading or art or cooking. Hiking, swimming, collecting bugs, making jewelry or making/editing music. My partner and i both love hiking and fishing. He likes to cook, i like to bake, and hes big into sports while i like art, reading, and exotic animal care. We have interests we share together, and things we e joy on our own, and sometimes we do different things in the dame room just to hang out, ie, hell watch a yankee game while i read ect.