Is she hot?

Asking the real question

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It was obviously convincing enough that I didn't notice anything was amiss, I'd be fine with it.

That being said, I've only been with cisgendered people... I'd assume trans men and women disclose that pretty upfront, particularly if they haven't had bottom surgery.

Call for a second date!

Sooooo, to be clear.....she has a vagina and a dick was put in it? Right?

I am cool. Haven't had a date in so long I'm just going to enjoy the experience.

And if I didn't notice at all then I'm going to assume I was pretty darn attracted and we had fun anyways, so who cares? It didn't bother me the first time.

That would vary based on the man answering question. For the sake of argument assume the trans woman is whose hotness is being discussed.

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I feel like this is actually the most important bit. Am I sexually attracted to her? If so, the rest just seems like details.

Doesn’t make a difference to me what they are

To my understanding they usually do, at bare minimum as a matter of safety. Some people get violent about any event that makes them question their own sexuality.

"Men, what if you went on a date with a woman?" Is essentially what you're asking. Not just because trans women are women, but because from the way you phrase it, it sounds like I wouldn't have been able to tell she was trans until she mentioned it, so she might as well just not mention that she's trans since obviously it doesn't matter.

If a trans woman was good in bed, try to do it again in a sober way and then yoy can ask yourself.

Maybe y'all did butt stuff in the dark, I suppose. But a vagina seems like the natural assumption.

She.

I've read enough psychology texts to know that sexuality is fluid, and while I'm a cisgendered heterosexual man... that's just a human-made label. If I was blindfolded and a man or woman gave me oral pleasure and didn't speak or make any noises, would I know the difference? Likely not.

OP said woman though

Nah.

I'll look at them like they had three heads

Yeah. I think a lot of people take labels like 'straight' or 'gay' (or anything else) to be prescriptive rather than descriptive.

Being gay doesn't mean you're forbidden from finding the opposite gender attractive, but rather it describes what you're usually attracted to. Similar goes for being straight. Finding the same sex attractive (or a trans person) in no way alters your sexuality, just the word you might use to describe it.

I would suffer for the rest of my life with severe severe depression.

Puke until I died