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HerbertWigglesworth t1_jaez31a wrote

Probably just said something awful in the heat of the moment.

I can be brutally honest at times, which I am generally happy about - but on occasions I suppose I could have waited until a calmer moment to say what I wanted to say more considerately.

I don’t regret any of these actions, more use them as learning experiences. A bad argument hasn’t happened in years, so somethings working

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SiC1989 OP t1_jaezpep wrote

Surely you've done something worse than said something awful. Think hard about it. Let's hear the really gritty stuff.

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HerbertWigglesworth t1_jaf0c38 wrote

Honestly no… I generally think words hit the hardest in many instances. I have had to bluntly tell people how I feel about them, their actions or my opinion on something they believe in - these instances have been the most impactful and are the most poignant in my mind.

I punched someone in retaliation as a child, that’s as physical as I have got - self defence, honestly don’t care.

Haven’t cheated or been unfaithful, nor really neglected anyone (knowingly) in respect of their emotions.

I also try to think of what would upset me the most. The most awful thing I could experience is someone I care about verbally dismantling our relationship, especially if it includes blunt honesty about how they felt about me - contrary to how I wanted/perceived things to be.

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