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SiC1989 OP t1_jaezpep wrote
Surely you've done something worse than said something awful. Think hard about it. Let's hear the really gritty stuff.
HerbertWigglesworth t1_jaf0c38 wrote
Honestly no… I generally think words hit the hardest in many instances. I have had to bluntly tell people how I feel about them, their actions or my opinion on something they believe in - these instances have been the most impactful and are the most poignant in my mind.
I punched someone in retaliation as a child, that’s as physical as I have got - self defence, honestly don’t care.
Haven’t cheated or been unfaithful, nor really neglected anyone (knowingly) in respect of their emotions.
I also try to think of what would upset me the most. The most awful thing I could experience is someone I care about verbally dismantling our relationship, especially if it includes blunt honesty about how they felt about me - contrary to how I wanted/perceived things to be.
SugaRowanie t1_jaez7rw wrote
Very mean during a breakup. Didn’t really think about his feelings and was very harsh in how I handled things
SiC1989 OP t1_jaezm84 wrote
Be specific. What did you do that was so awful?
SugaRowanie t1_jaezr12 wrote
How much more specific can I get? I was mean and I didn’t handle it nicely
purelifertx t1_jaf04fm wrote
Broke her phone after an bad break up so she quit messaging me
Securitygaurd t1_jaf3m91 wrote
Called them a poopoo head
HerbertWigglesworth t1_jaez31a wrote
Probably just said something awful in the heat of the moment.
I can be brutally honest at times, which I am generally happy about - but on occasions I suppose I could have waited until a calmer moment to say what I wanted to say more considerately.
I don’t regret any of these actions, more use them as learning experiences. A bad argument hasn’t happened in years, so somethings working