Probably just said something awful in the heat of the moment.

I can be brutally honest at times, which I am generally happy about - but on occasions I suppose I could have waited until a calmer moment to say what I wanted to say more considerately.

I don’t regret any of these actions, more use them as learning experiences. A bad argument hasn’t happened in years, so somethings working

Very mean during a breakup. Didn’t really think about his feelings and was very harsh in how I handled things

Be specific. What did you do that was so awful?

Surely you've done something worse than said something awful. Think hard about it. Let's hear the really gritty stuff.

How much more specific can I get? I was mean and I didn’t handle it nicely

Broke her phone after an bad break up so she quit messaging me

Honestly no… I generally think words hit the hardest in many instances. I have had to bluntly tell people how I feel about them, their actions or my opinion on something they believe in - these instances have been the most impactful and are the most poignant in my mind.

I punched someone in retaliation as a child, that’s as physical as I have got - self defence, honestly don’t care.

Haven’t cheated or been unfaithful, nor really neglected anyone (knowingly) in respect of their emotions.

I also try to think of what would upset me the most. The most awful thing I could experience is someone I care about verbally dismantling our relationship, especially if it includes blunt honesty about how they felt about me - contrary to how I wanted/perceived things to be.

Called them a poopoo head