Theyre weirdly rude. It wasn't awful i think its kind of an act, but i wouldn't recommend it given your original post. The Druid is great, New Republik is pretty solid, Thirsty Scholar too. All in Inman Square. If you enjoy video games, Roxys aka 4rcade in Central sq. Is pretty solid too for a relatively friendly vibe and you can get some good grilled cheese too

My personal experience there has been the exact opposite. In fact, one of the reasons I like going there is that the staff is super friendly. Bummer to hear others have had poor experiences there though

abbey staff is very rude in general, as a server who works in the cambridge area