Why not live in Annapolis? The historic part is super cute, lots of places to walk and things to do. Columbia is as suburban as it gets. If you live in Columbia, there are walking paths for exercise but they don’t go to any real destination - just tot lots. If you like a city feel, you might be bored in Columbia. You will be driving every time you want to do something.

I love Columbia, I was born there, went to Howard County schools my whole life, have never lived more than 10 miles away. We do a lot of driving 20 minutes, it’s hard to meet new people, and you don’t get much space/land of your own. There are lots of rules to keep it suburban, nice and safe, fitting in, being a middle class person. If you like that, come visit!

I suggest visiting in Spring. That’s a nice time in Maryland. This time of year is kinda gray and damp. But there’s Christmas lights and displays if you come before the end of the year.