I mean, it sounds like it's one of your best options. The commute won't be fun, but since your husband works on MoCo, and you need to be close to Baltimore, and you work in D.C.... it's pretty central.

It's a really nice area and I love it. I just moved here a year ago with my wife, and it'll be hard to convince us to leave.

It's really expensive though, that's the only downside. Even aside from rent, cost of living is just high.