Jud.ct.gov has a page full of resources. Get a lawyer lined up. Cwealf.org (ct women legal) is a non-profit that css as n help connect you to a lawyer. Having a therapist for myself and the kids really helped us get through it and come out better for it. I would ask a lawyer asap about the financial piece and if you should start lining up employment. Better to get legal answers than guess or wait. I wish you well.