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IndicationOver t1_j5smflk wrote

So your long distance bf is moving to CT to be closer to you and you don't plan on living with him?

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chickennugar OP t1_j5t9hff wrote

we've both mutually agreed to not live together before marriage :) it would be easier to just live with him but we are more traditional when it comes to dating so we'd rather go the hard route.

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IndicationOver t1_j5umejq wrote

> we are more traditional when it comes to dating so we'd rather go the hard route.

You mean to say non-traditional?

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chickennugar OP t1_j5ut1br wrote

honestly if you can't answer the original question then why are you still here? stop judging other people's lives and maybe get a life of your own if you have enough time to pick through mine like you know what's best for a relationship you know nothing about. traditionally couples moved in after marriage. or at least that's what I've been taught. sure maybe it's a dead practice because society came along and said it's dumb but that doesn't change how I feel. I see benefits in living apart during the dating stage. so what's it to you? damn. all i asked for was apartment advice 💀

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gordita_vonteese t1_j60pqph wrote

I'm going to guess they mean traditional in their culture, rather than yours

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chickennugar OP t1_j5urjoa wrote

no?

not practicing modern norms doesn't equal non traditional.

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