honestly if you can't answer the original question then why are you still here? stop judging other people's lives and maybe get a life of your own if you have enough time to pick through mine like you know what's best for a relationship you know nothing about. traditionally couples moved in after marriage. or at least that's what I've been taught. sure maybe it's a dead practice because society came along and said it's dumb but that doesn't change how I feel. I see benefits in living apart during the dating stage. so what's it to you? damn. all i asked for was apartment advice 💀