I've had good luck on the Facebook page Bristol Talks. Just don't take them too seriously for much else.

So your long distance bf is moving to CT to be closer to you and you don't plan on living with him?

Yea I was wondering the same

we've both mutually agreed to not live together before marriage :) it would be easier to just live with him but we are more traditional when it comes to dating so we'd rather go the hard route.

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confused about what?

we'll try that, thanks :)

> we are more traditional when it comes to dating so we'd rather go the hard route.

You mean to say non-traditional?

no?

not practicing modern norms doesn't equal non traditional.

honestly if you can't answer the original question then why are you still here? stop judging other people's lives and maybe get a life of your own if you have enough time to pick through mine like you know what's best for a relationship you know nothing about. traditionally couples moved in after marriage. or at least that's what I've been taught. sure maybe it's a dead practice because society came along and said it's dumb but that doesn't change how I feel. I see benefits in living apart during the dating stage. so what's it to you? damn. all i asked for was apartment advice 💀

Your 19 and trust some boy you met online across the country.. just saying it’s a dangerous world

we were both homeschooled and met through a private social forum our highschool has. we've known eachother for almost three years, have done lots of calls and what not, and even met in person last november. we're trying to close the distance so we can date in person. and he will live in his own place incase we don't work out. he isn't "just some boy". you sound like every other arrogant person that doesn't think ldrs are valid relationships. and ftr he's only half the country away :)

I'm going to guess they mean traditional in their culture, rather than yours