Sorry for the diatribe haha Based on the 5 CT towns I’ve spent significant time in as an adult, I’d have to say West Hartford has personally been the best experience. There’s a good sense of community, people seem to be more accepting. It’s fairly upscale and safe, but lacks the sting of snobbery. There’s comparatively more racial, cultural, and social diversity, the schools are good, and the downtown/blueback area has a lot going on. It’s a great place to raise kids, as most of the neighborhoods are very walkable and are set up in a way that seems to promote social interaction. The town radiates with opportunities for kids to grow up well rounded and learn life in a safe (but not insular) environment