I make roughly 60-62k (bonus dependent) and my fiancé makes 90k exactly. We got an fha mortgage bought our home for 250k last year. Both have car payments, I have private student loans. No help from anyone aside from moving help, and a few small cash gifts (totaling maybe 4-600). Just gotta learn to budget properly. I personally divide all my monthly expenses by 4, and pay, or squirrel away let’s say $100 per month/4 so $25 a week. Works great!