I was making around $150k base with like a $80k bonus. The bonus helped with the down payment. House was $430k in the summer of 2019. Small 1940/ cape in Fairfield County - 4 beds 2 full bath but only like 1400 sq ft.

I did borrow some money from my dad for closing costs. Around $20k. I paid him back by the next bonus. Honestly, I feel like getting a bonus is the biggest advantage + having any help.