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Bomixes t1_isstp7o wrote

I agree , I have a friend who recently lost their father, the mom keeps visiting the grave site and gets upset at her kids because they don’t visit everyday. And when the site gets leaves and debris, she is there to make sure it is clean. To some it would be a nice one time thing, to others it would be a scary addiction.

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toetx2 t1_isszysf wrote

Might be a generation or cultural thing, keeping the grave neat is a way of showing respect.

But yes, it becomes a problem when it looks like an addiction. It sounds harsh, but people that can't move on need help, or else they end up stuck in a depression that might be deadly as well.

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