We’re all, too an extent, lil build a bears. You can decide who you want to be and work on becoming that person regardless of age. Mental fortitude, emotional intelligence, self disciple, impulse control, fit and healthy,….whomever you imagine yourself to be and skills you wish you had, you can be that. It’s right there. Youtube, podcasts, books, it’s there. You are not experiencing any hardship that hasn’t already been experienced & conquered by ppl who came before you.

Don’t just get into relationships and wing them. They require certain skills. Research them and master them as best you can. Then don’t settle.

Learn the difference between love and attachment.

If you’re constantly struggling to start or complete a goal, there’s likely something going on mentally. Explore your mental health. You gotta learn to control your mind and not the other way around.