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lazybear90 OP t1_jdgrfce wrote

Reply to comment by cucumbersan in [Text] Nobody at the gym is judging you for your weight. And if anyone does, they are so much worse than the worst you could possibly think about yourself. by lazybear90

Can you explain why I’m hypocritical? Genuinely curious, as I truly thought I was writing something supportive and encouraging. Sorry if it sounds otherwise.

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Front_Safety4374 t1_jdh83t4 wrote

there are those who need people to be against them. dont engage too much, as they aren't seeking mutual exploration on the topic, just reiterating that they feel alone. I hope the person who said u were hypocritical gets the healing they need

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cucumbersan t1_jdhg2sw wrote

So wise, so insightful, so sure of herself. Big wow

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lazybear90 OP t1_jdhoa7n wrote

Don’t let her speak for you, then. You could answer the question yourself.

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cucumbersan t1_jdo6827 wrote

“If someone judges you for your weight then they are so much worse than the worst you could possibly think of yourself”

Sounds a bit harsh my dude. Have you not judged someone on the basis of something you later regretted? Did that make you the worst person imaginable?

It’s not about being better than people. Generally your comment is great and I was not very nice I should not have said that.

But I do think it’s a bit hypocritical mr understanding and compassion

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