The moment a crew stops intimidating and spying out of fear is the moment they get respect, quiet, and "distance". Might be off topic... But that's my lesson for whoever wants it.

Crew as in friends? Not crew as in people on a ship/boat?

I'll have to wait until my neighbors dog dies first. My chest literally hurts from the anxiety his barks cause. The neighbors that screamed bloody murder in the middle of the night as they fought already left so just got one left to go. Can't do shit about the family dog that fucked up my right ear and gives me hear palpations but I'll just learn to live with that and my trembling right hand. Maybe my brother will stop telling me he wants to die too.

These posts tend to be tone deaf because they are almost always created by individuals residing in a wealthy developed consumerist nation.

This is no exception.

Damn...that may explain why it feels like a burden.

The moment I get more than 4 hours of sleep at night because of my toddler, full time job, and PhD candidate wife I'll try to remember this

I seriosuly thought they were refering to some kind of [spying] film crew at first.
I guess they mean friends?

I feel you

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