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mathgeek8668 t1_iyzvyym wrote

I’m glad when I looked at most of these comments. I couldn’t figure this one out either. This is not what most people think when they see someone who’s been defeated. They point a lot of blame at them. It is really rare to be viewed this way and usually comes with some pretty hefty strings.

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starfirenitee OP t1_iz05fkd wrote

You can choose how you look at things. I’m not sure why there is such a negative spin to this

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mathgeek8668 t1_iz05qqx wrote

You actually can’t choose your thoughts. Sometimes you can choose to act on them. This isn’t motivating and feels unrealistic.

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