I disagree. Honestly I would work on just loving yourself, having healthy and fulfilling friendships, and making your life full of things that make you happy. I’m not discounting your desire for intimacy, but you truly have to give yourself all the love you need first to be an asset to someone else. And I say that as someone on the “right side of the bus” without ever having dated. My worth isn’t measured by other people thinking that I am worthy of their affection.