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jacobfreeman88 t1_j0fj317 wrote

Doing something difficult (but not too difficult) is instilling in us a sense of accomplishment and confidence in our ability to do thing. I find with sooo many distractions we stop doing the things we really want to do, deep down. And that makes us feel like we actually can’t do things. At least that’s my experience. Also with social media you’re bombarded with people doing amazing and achieving stuff.

It’s kinda like this study I watched on the effects of porn on confidence. If you watch other men with other women long enough, it does something to our primitive brains. That monkey part of the brain that was pushed aside by a bigger stronger male for mating purposes. I’m being silly but there’s truth in that.

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crujones33 t1_j0tl99e wrote

A lot of this makes sense. I find myself doing time-wasting, unproductive, low-effort crap instead of things I want to do.

The porn stuff makes sense too.

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