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SomeonesRealAccount t1_j20pdqo wrote

And seek help for yourself when you need it.

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UpDownCharmed t1_j20sfjj wrote

Yes! A good therapist can help you in so many ways - seeing you through a setback, make positive changes in life....

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Thulamir t1_j210zl0 wrote

And yet we are social beings as humans. We need others to be there for us. To be there when we fall, to support us, to fight for us, etc. I know that isn't available for everyone, and yet it is needed for attachment security.

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who519 t1_j210nni wrote

While true, in many cases this excuses cruelty to some degree. If you notice someone in your life suffering please help them it will be good for both of you.

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Lilimaej t1_j20768a wrote

I love this!!!! ❤️

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ValyrianJedi t1_j2155bb wrote

If nobody is coming to save you, choose you, or validate you then you are in desperate need of a better support system.

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genuinely_insincere t1_j22x1mt wrote

nah. terrible advice. there are always people available to help others. but that doesn't mean youre supposed to just sit there and die while you wait for them

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Suyefuji t1_j21qihj wrote

Ah yes, 12-year-old me would love to hear how it's my job to save myself from my rapist

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Harlequin-sama t1_j21yx5v wrote

That's why I got a bit selfish over the years. Don't expect or hope that someone will do the same, as you do for others. Avoid ppl who only try to profit from everything and everyone. Look out for those who appreciate what you do and give in return.

But beware off ppl who collect favours, they will come to you with questionable demands and don't accept a no, because u know...they did you a favour.

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john1108hr t1_j22obr8 wrote

I started writing the first paragraph.

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MrMr4678 t1_j23lzxi wrote

“No one is coming to save you” incorrect because God will save us all.

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