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whelpthissuckz t1_j29dey0 wrote

I have a unique perspective on this, I 24m is facing possible divorce with my wife 22f whom I love very much. We have a daughter as well. She said it’s because she isn’t happy with me and has never know who she really is without me. Fair enough. All this to say I am way out of shape, struggling with depression (before any mention of divorce). So I am already getting an early start. I have the intention of getting into shape. Like mad fit style. In this journey I am also making major changes that effect my mental health for the better. Not only are these changes for my daughter and I, but if my wife wants to leave I am set on one thing.

This runs through my head ever time I feel like quitting:

“Make her regret leaving, or make her happy she stayed”

Edit: spelling error.

Happy New Year’s Redditers

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EveryPaint551 t1_j2d6vsy wrote

Let me tell you this

Start looking inside of you and get out of depression as soon as possible. When you got it, you can not even love yourself, then how can your wife feel it.

Negotiate, tell your wife to pause, not stop. Telling her your goal, and how you gonna make it. Then just do.

Fix yourself, then fix your relationship.

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