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Large_Winter9053 t1_j6fpu7y wrote

Don't you have any dreams? An awesome house in great location? Fun job that pays well? Meeting the love of your life? Some fitness goal, like running a marathon, or just losing weight and getting fit?

A goal is just a way to measure progress towards your dreams. How much, by when.

A plan is a set of steps you take to reach the goal.

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Konmarty OP t1_j6h8shd wrote

As fun as some of those sound having been incapacitated for work for over a decade now I've pretty much given up on any 'big' dreams (or anything that involves money). Love would be nice but I feel I should first be able to be 100% happy on my own first because right now a love interest would probably become my hyperfocus which never is a good idea.
Though I guess there might be something here about how I do have things I want but for each dream there's immediately thoughts about how it's not realistic or the wrong thing to want..

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