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[deleted] t1_j3rqgsr wrote

The biggest regret I have is not blowing my head off in around 1998 or 99.

My adult life has been miserable and frustrating. I hate my job, no friends, no social life.

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Academic-Bench-4954 t1_j4977mf wrote

I feel this comment a lot, because I wake up on the daily thinking, if this is all life has to offer me, I don’t think I want it. I have no plans or intentions of doing so, but I get it. If I’ve learned anything about being miserable all the time, it’s this; you make your own mood everyday. You decide if you want to be hyper active crazy and silly all day of if you want to have a scowl on your face all day. If you hate your job genuinely or you hate the pay you make. Start looking at Glassdoor and indeed. There’s jobs everywhere. I just recently changed career directions from us contractor work for the govt back into the direction of collision repair. Start applying for places you like, and go from there. Apply for everything your curious ahout because, fuck it dude why not?

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[deleted] t1_j4jcv0v wrote

There are no jobs out there that would come close to the money I currently make.

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Academic-Bench-4954 t1_j4rbguv wrote

I’ve taken a pay cut for my mental health before. If you can’t make it bearable, and don’t want to leave, then make the job work for you. You don’t work for the company, that company works around you because you have a life.

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[deleted] t1_j4rc4wy wrote

Life doesn't work that way.

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Academic-Bench-4954 t1_j5voxcz wrote

Works for me. I wouldn’t want to work anywhere else because of it.

I could make an excuse up to leave work if I wanted. It’s that easy, and I haven’t done that by the way, just an example. It’s very laid back, I come to work do my job, go home. If my wife calls, I answer it.

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[deleted] t1_j5vzymk wrote

Consider yourself lucky. I work every shift...evenings, mornings, and a midnight... during the course of 5 days. I've done this for numerous years.

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