Doggosnotfroggos t1_j3yote8 wrote on January 11, 2023 at 11:41 PM

Reply to comment by GroovyNoob in [Tool] These basic things can change your life by Sbinmaster69

I don’t need to listen to OP. I’m perfectly happy in my relationship, and think they’re talking harmful bollocks.

GroovyNoob t1_j428n2q wrote on January 12, 2023 at 5:56 PM

So, just to be clear, you were anxious and depressed, and then you got into a relationship and it fixed everything for you?

Doggosnotfroggos t1_j45i5zm wrote on January 13, 2023 at 8:23 AM

I mean yeah? Living a life alone is hard and sad. It’s not such a radical concept. 15, 20 years ago it was normal to be in a relationship and if you weren’t you were an anomaly and and it was accepted it was a shitty situation to be in. This new attitude is overthinking things and is emotional gaslighting in my opinion. Get the relationship, if you’re still sad and depressed go see someone but don’t try and treat situational symptoms without trying to fix the situation. It’s madness.

GroovyNoob t1_j46ye7k wrote on January 13, 2023 at 4:27 PM

Living life alone IS hard and sad, and most of us do long for romantic companionship. And I agree that sometimes, all that’s wrong is that you’re lonely. I don’t, however, think that’s the majority of cases.

Why? Because people who are emotionally secure, socially interested, and intellectually involved are in a perfect position to find a partner (much like you did, in fact!) This post is not written for people who are just in the normal transitory state between growing up and finding a partner. This post is intended for people for whom relationships do not come, or do not work.