Quiet in the comments...they must be taking notes

This is so goddamn important in so many situations.

First and foremost, you hardly ever have to worry about apologizing for or explaining something you haven't said.

While silence can be misinterpreted, it is easier to explain than poorly chosen words.

In some cases, silence can literally change your life. Not speaking to cops, not rising to the bait of some wannabe tough guy in public, not spouting off to your spouse/partner...all of these are situations in which just a few poorly chosen words can have a life altering impact.

Take time to listen and ponder.

Eventually you learn that in some scenarios, saying anything will change nothing and it is best to simply move on.

If everyone went into a conversation with the intention to listen rather than talk the world would be a bit different I think.

I take notes of every conversation being had around me as long as I can comprehend or not overwhelmed. It's a great way to know whether or not to approach and engage or stay away, react or ignore, befriend or walk away. Staying quiet and taking notes in today's society feels like a skill.

Every corporate meeting I've ever been in. Never open your mouth because as soon as you do, from then on, you own the issue being talked about.

Keep your mouth shut and people wonder about your intelligence. Open your mouth, and they know.

This reminds me of a time when I I told my own lady shush. I think I woke up and I was gone.

Lol I am the quiet one. I listen and remember. Then hear those speaking contradict themselves and lie. It's hilarious and infuriating. Useful for sure!