It sounds like you might be suited to something more analytical and less fast paced! Like less customer service oriented and more project oriented. I’m not sure where your interests or experience lie but maybe look into accounting, finance, business operations. You might not make as much as a waitress in the first year, but earnings potential after a few years is much higher!

Also, if it makes you feel any better, I have friends who’ve been in the restaurant industry for years and all of them say being a hostess is by far the hardest gig!