[deleted] t1_j9uussi wrote on February 24, 2023 at 6:50 PM

Ironically it's my cheater ex that has my back. Gave me additional trauma but I know I can rely on him? Make it make sense 😂

Purple_is_masculine t1_j9vmbwl wrote on February 24, 2023 at 9:48 PM

People are complex. Pure good and pure evil people only exist in fairy tales.

King-Cobra-668 t1_j9w3tmk wrote on February 24, 2023 at 11:49 PM

they might also just betray you again when your guard is down

Pudding_Hero t1_j9wj91c wrote on February 25, 2023 at 1:45 AM

There are legit pure evil/good people though

Anomalous6 t1_j9uz1rf wrote on February 24, 2023 at 7:17 PM

The devil you know.

[deleted] t1_j9v0nkg wrote on February 24, 2023 at 7:28 PM

Truth

throw3142 t1_j9vqbwo wrote on February 24, 2023 at 10:14 PM

The person who understands me best these days is my ex crush who I swore I'd never think about again, go figure ... I'm now glad I chose to calm down and stay friends with her instead of blowing it all up - even though I don't think of her that way anymore, it's still good to have someone to talk to as a close friend; we know too much about each other to become completely estranged anyway

wontgetthejob t1_j9x27n9 wrote on February 25, 2023 at 4:23 AM

If it helps any, no one really goes out to cheat to gleefully be cruel and hurt people's feelings. Finding a friendship somewhere in there is the healthier path than embittered negativity.

Source: a largely embittered soon to be divorced man

SeesawExtreme8466 t1_j9wf7r8 wrote on February 25, 2023 at 1:14 AM

You are going in the opposite direction