I agree the Institute of Living is very good and it's right there. Yale New Haven Hospital and Silver Hill also offer excellent DBT programs. Silver Hill offers inpatient DBT treatment. It's hard to get in though because it's very expensive and exclusive. But they take private insurance. Utilize 211. They will direct her to a crisis line and someone may be able to come to the home to assess her. They can assess whether she needs to go to the hospital or arrange for an intake at a local mental health agency for services.