Burneracct157 t1_izl0xus wrote on December 9, 2022 at 9:47 PM

Reply to comment by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW in I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW

You recommend fessing up rather than making it look like a relationship that developed organically after the fact? What if the relationship was never discovered by either spouse?

Affair-Recovery t1_izt5mgb wrote on December 11, 2022 at 5:47 PM

If the former relationship is over, the affair was never discovered, and person is still with AP … then the commitment to the previous partner is no longer active. In this situation disclosure might not help with any healing as former relationship has already dissolved.