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What is your favorite client like?

This may sound harsh but I don't have a favorite. 99 percent of the guys who call are guys I'd be very nervous to be on an elevator with.

What pushes you through those rough days when you have relationship/money/scheduling/life problems? Do you have a process to “get into character” that helps you get into work mode?

Do some people's "extreme" sexual fantasies ever get too disturbing to act along with? If so, what was the topic?

-The rough times I get through by knowing it's an ebb and flow between the good and the bad. The droughts won't last forever. -I don't have much of a process because it comes naturally to me. Although it helps I intentionally styled my persona to be something I'd have an easy time pretending to be.

Do you have to show yourself on cam or can you just chat?

>99 percent of the guys who call are guys I'd be very nervous to be on an elevator with.

Sounds like a very uncomfortable job. Or at least a job that can make everyday life feel uncomfortable and creepy.

The site I use bans the usual suspects. Pedophilia, incest, meeting in real life, and scat, to name a few. So the trick is to act like the site is being a wet blanket and won't let me, and redirect to something else (like being their best friend if they wanted me to be their sister). Though the pedos never let themselves be redirected, they just hang up when I say that no, I won't be 15 for them.

How do you become a phone sex operator?

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Cam is an option, but I don't do that. I do phone calls and texting. Thus is because I don't actually masturbate for the callers, I just fake the sounds. Can't fake it on cam lol

Would it be worth it to only text? Like as in are you paid more to take a call?

It's gig work not unlike Doordash. Anyone with a bank account and ID can sign up and make a profile on the site, though advertising and attracting customers is up to you.

One of my PSO friends (there's a discord server for everything) has been doing only text due to a sore throat, but the way the site works, the ad space you bid for is only shown to customers if you have your call line on. So it's easier said than done.

It's good that they don't allow that or encourage you to play along.

People still call phone sex lines?

Mostly old guys who still remember when it was "a thing".

Yep! When I was looking to get into this line of work, I avoided the companies that force you to play along. You couldn't pay me enough to pretend to be a kid.

Have you ever had a woman caller?

Since you’re not on video and could fake the enthusiasm, what are you actually doing while on a call? I’d imagine like, trimming your toenails, making a grocery list, looking out the window and being annoyed by the same stupid white truck that drives by everyday that is so loud the car alarms go off.

Someone else asked how you got into it and you say that anyone can do it like doordash. Please tell me you're getting paid more than you get paid doing doordash. Is it actually lucrative at all? Is it hard to attract clients?

One singular time. She wanted to play a fantasy where she was the alpha bitch of the school and I was the shy geek. Cunnilingus ensued, obviously

I won't glamorize it. Anyone who says you'll get rich from it is probably trying to sell you something. I'm broke and have roommates to split the rent. I have a steady amount of clients using the site's feature where you bid to have ad space for your listing. After taxes, I'm making the same I did at minimum wage jobs (all I have the skill for) for doing flexible, fully remote work, so im happy with it, but not rich

I draw, play video games, text my friends, and scroll on social media. Anything quiet, basically.

First off, props to you for doing that as a profession. I believe it would take a toll on anyone.

What was the worst experience you have had so far in the business?

Some asshole with a failing marriage tried to goad me (white) into saying the n word, and called me offended when I refused. He refused to tell me what sort of fantasy or kinks he had, what porn he watched, so I had nothing to work with. He also tried to convince me to sell him my panties (against the site rules to sell physical items), and was rude overall.

Ugh that would not be a fun experience in the slightest, I'm sorry you had to go through that.

Follow up, are you allowed to hang up at any point? Or like most customer service, do you have to stay on the line politely?

It's all up to me how I wanna run the show. I'm rewarded by cheaper advertising if I get returning customers and longer calls, so I'm incentivized to not just hang up willy nilly. Plus, guys can review me. But twice I've hung up, both times when the customer insinuated I was their underage daughter.

Thanks. What i figured. Like the people saying you can make millions with feet pics and selling panties, etc. I imagine the market is flooded so you'd have to do a lot of promoting and get to be some kind of well known to make the bank

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What do you look at while talking? Are you browsing the internet? Do you wander around aimlessly, picking up random objects?

I find it awkward enough talking on the phone because many people don't speak loudly enough. How do you deal with having to ask someone to repeat themselves?

Never would have occurred to me that sexy texting is a thing people pay for.

I'm chilling in bed, looking at social media. I can even draw or play video games too.

It is, and it's mostly me receiving dick pics, but it's $$$ so whatevs

There always has to be a cutoff point! Gross those people world resort to that type of thing, those positive reviews would not be worth the hassle of dealing with people like that.

I hope you do the best in the field! Sounds like you have it pretty under control!

Ty!! : D

This is awesome and thank you for being so responsive. Considering you've already answered any questions I could think of for your line of work (With the possible exception of one: What's the singular most uncomfortable/traumatic interaction that you have had so far? disregard, you did already answer that), I'd like to ask a few off-topic questions, if I may.

What's the meaning behind your username?

What are your preferred toppings on a sandwich?

Suicide Squad or THE Suicide Squad?

Thoughts on Henry Cavill?

Do you ever get legitimately turned on by callers?

I haven't, no, but I'm not a very horny person except for fictional characters

1. I like splatoon and vampires, hence squidteeth.
2. I like a classic hamd and cheese for a cold sandwich, or grilled cheese for a hot one.
3. I haven't seen either if those, but I'll go with the second. It sounds more important
4. He seems cool. Sad he won't be superman anymore :<

I don't know if you have been asked this before, but I read in a reply that you have a roomate, so do they like, hear what you say on the calls and they're just chill or are they just not there?

There's enough wall between us that it doesn't seem to bother them.

Ah, that's good to know. Tell your roommate that a random person on Reddit said hi for me.

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did you ever get attached to a client? If not then what was closest?

I haven't been yet. I consider not getting attached, though, an asset rather than a detriment. It's hist business to me

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you ever meet actually nice guys on there?