smoppo t1_j7wkgph wrote
Hi Ray, I'm a big fan of yours! Did you ever come across negativity, toxicity and favouritism in the industry? Any time through your studies and career? I wonder if you have any tips for musicians who have struggled with this sort of thing? Kindest wishes
raychenviolin OP t1_j7wp1hv wrote
Oh yeah, all 3, all the time. I was pretty mad for a period of time (couldn't you tell from my content? jks) but yeah, it was sort this helpless feeling that actually made me feel like "Welp, I have nothing to lose, might as well focus on what I want, which is connecting with people and creating positive impact".
As advice for those who are dealing with this sort of thing, if it's outside of your control, try to change your environment. If it is something you can change (where you're not hurting others), then do it.
One of the best realizations that I made was when I finally decided I would stop living in the eyes of others. Best wishes and hope you're doing okay!
smoppo t1_j7wqt0w wrote
Massive respect to you for taking the time to write out such a thoughtful answer. Often we put people on a pedestal and forget they've been through so much themselves. Really great advice and well received! Take care out there
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