Although people say it's not good to dwell in the past, I like reflecting because I think it's the easiest way to determine personal growth. (ie. Situation in the past that happened, how would I deal with it now?)

Therefore I do have a few things I wish I knew that could have helped make life smoother:

• Don't make assumptions before you have all the details
• It's OK to be different because everyone is. Some are just hiding it better than others.
• Don't be afraid to ask people for help but don't let their help go to waste. Learn and adapt so you can be stronger and more useful.
• It's better to say "I don't know" than to make up something.
• Be aware of not only yourself and others around you, but also the impact you make to others through your actions.
• Goldfish only need to be fed once per day.
• Buffets are not the answer.
• Instead of being defensive, learn to throw yourself into the situation to fully understand everyone's perspective.