Racechick20 t1_j8s3r8p wrote on February 16, 2023 at 3:45 PM

Reply to comment by Mrs-O-Meurs in I'm Dr. Ranjith Ramasamy, the Director of Reproductive Urology at the University of Miami. I'm here today to answer any questions you have about vasectomies. Ask me anything! by ramasamymd

Go get the pre-op for your tubal ligation.

After my spouse heard what it all entailed and how long I'd be down, he took one for the team and got it done.

However, he's a science/reason guy. I don't want to read into your situation, but my husband would take a little pain to keep me out of a lot of it.

There's also the option where you don't consent to sex.

VoxClarus t1_j9lkrve wrote on February 22, 2023 at 9:19 PM

Yeah. I get that there's no context here, but it seems like 10 painful pregnancies don't indicate a lot of respect for her wellbeing. Time to buy some condoms. Or pills. Or an IUD. Literally anything has to be better than that?