Submitted by pajamajammer t3_1261gwp in LifeProTips

Certain medical and dental procedures trigger cold sweats, lightheadedness, anxiety, and tunnel vision as if I’m about to faint. I have an upcoming procedure that I’d like to prepare myself for. I’m thinking I may try to bring headphones and blast classical music. Any other ideas for me?

ETA: pain/anxiety meds are not an option for this procedure unfortunately

16

Comments

You must log in or register to comment.

relpmeraggy t1_je74lvz wrote

Tell them your nervous, I did for my last surgery I had and they gave me drugs. Calmed me down to the point I was talking football with one of the nurses.

Edit what procedure?

9

pajamajammer OP t1_je89cgs wrote

Unfortunately I can’t ask for drugs bc I’m pregnant. I’m having an amniocentesis, where basically they will guide a giant needle into my belly.

1

ContemplatingFolly t1_je7bo5q wrote

First, tell the nurse/doc ahead of time that you are nervous. . You can also ask any questions at this time. A good doc/nurse will tell you all about what their doing so you will know what to expect

Look up breathing exercises that trigger the "relaxation response", which can help knock down that adrenaline.

Also remember that it is your body; you have the right to stop the procedure at any time.

Good luck.

3

lurkinglen t1_je74fou wrote

Learn how to do breath work, practice at home and then do it when in the dentist chair.

2

remberzz t1_je7av8r wrote

Just FYI - dental local anesthesia can cause palpitations, sweating and dizziness in some people. It can be pretty severe, too.

2

mvfsullivan t1_je7nxit wrote

I'm like this too. I literally have impending doom level anxiety attacks when taking blood where I am so light headed, ready to pass out that I think I'm dying and its so terrifying I think about actually wanting to die to get it over with. I have very bad anxiety and take benzos usually before getting blood work done, its that bad.

I learned something invaluable from my doc and have been fine since. It takes practise, but holy fuck trust me it works magic.

Breath out through the mouth longer than you breath in through the nose and on each breath out, focus on 1 of each sense, 4 times and repeat if necessary. It seriously works!!!

Normal breath in, long controlled breath out 1: Focus on one thing you can hear, really focus on it

Normal breath in, long controlled breath out 2: focus on one thing you can see, really get curious

Etc etc Breath out 3: focus on something you can feel, wiggle your toes, feel your shoes or wiggle your fingers and feel your skin

Etc etc Breath 4: focus on something you can smell, smell the fresh air, the perfumws

Etc etc Breath 5: focus on one thing you can taste, even if its just your saliva, or imagine what your fav food tastes like

All things NON surgery/hospital related

The breathing out through the mouth is important because it equalizes your heart, the senses are a distraction to the brain.

2

jaro0037 t1_je7ucfg wrote

For me, what finally made a difference during blood draws, injections, etc. was to not hide from it or get embarrassed. I simply tell them that my body reacts in an over the top manner to these things and kind of make a joke out of it. I know it's ridiculous. I know I'll be perfectly fine, but my body still gets the cold sweats, I feel light-headed and dizzy. If they ask how I do with blood draws, for instance, I tell them it depends on the day, but I'll do my best.

About 99% of the time now it's over before the sweat gets too far down my head. I ask for a paper towel to wipe it off, laugh about it, and get the heck out of there.

Another thing that works well for me is to ask them about their day or something and really listen to their answer. If you can focus on learning about them, it distracts your mind enough that it's over before the body has time to react.

I've gone from literally passing out in the past to sitting through regular 3 hour infusions without a problem. If this guy can do it, I know you can too.

2

wahitii t1_je84bsb wrote

I sing Queen Songs are you ready? I'm standing alone lalala. Standing on my own two feet.

Not sure if those are the actual lyrics.

I just repeat those until it's done. Not for dentists because I bob my head.

2

wahitii t1_je858y8 wrote

Guided meditation, try It in advance but sometimes the sound of a person talking to you and telling you what to do over rides the anxiety or pain signal.

I mean in headphones, and specifically the relaxation type that go in order from head to toe so you lose track of what's happening elsewhere.

2

Bitter-Heat-8767 t1_je8lkbu wrote

4-7-8 breathing and I go to my happy place. Remember how it smells and sounds really helps me get there

2

keepthetips t1_je71a7o wrote

Hello and welcome to r/LifeProTips!

Please help us decide if this post is a good fit for the subreddit by up or downvoting this comment.

If you think that this is great advice to improve your life, please upvote. If you think this doesn't help you in any way, please downvote. If you don't care, leave it for the others to decide.

1

MrKahnberg t1_je774p0 wrote

Drugs. They're Dr's, they know how to administer drugs. Life's short, there's no time to needlessly "tough it out".

1

mrkrid t1_je7g3x9 wrote

For dental procedures go somewhere that does the laughing gas thing, that stuff is pure gold when it comes to keeping you calm or at least it is for me. For other procedures that aren’t done under general anesthesia make sure you eat and drink well that day and tell the doc you are extremely anxious, any good doctor should be open to prescribing you a valium or something similar to take prior to the procedure.

1

Pristine_Mark6709 t1_jebv6p5 wrote

Recently underwent dental procedure with local anesthesia. I was so petrified with the dental procedure tools they use.(movies)

In my case, trick that helped me is, I literally started investigating the focus lamp that dentists use. I started counting the vertical lines around the bulb and then in reverse and many more time 😂.

1

Fun_Amount3063 t1_je8nqds wrote

Tell them you’re nervous, ffs. This has nothing to do with life tips.

0