I would second identifying why you feel uncomfortable cleaning around him. Do you feel like your work is insignificant just because it’s inside the home? Do you think your work doesn’t count if it is imperfect? Are you embarrassed for him to see you cleaning? A lot of times people unconsciously devalue house work and domestic activity. This can be even more likely if you are a women who was told to go 50/50 your entire life, as you feel like you aren’t living up to the expectations of “equality”. Ask yourself if you would stop working on an accounting job if your spouse was present. If you wouldn’t stop then, maybe consider what your feelings are towards cleaning and why you may have them.

Your work, labor, and contribution to your family is valuable. Domestic labor is labor- and you are contributing to your family just like your partner is. You are pulling your weight. You are the creator and composer of the music for your family. Work is work, and you should be always proud of it- whether it’s inside or outside your home.