Submitted by NiloTheCat t3_11s5lgv in LifeProTips
Think about people you like to be with. What is it that makes you happy to hang out with them?
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stella672 t1_jcbwp4a wrote
As an introvert believe or not I like to have extrovert friends they force me out of my comfort and we often have lots of fun
Photographer_Rob t1_jcbwpzx wrote
A positive attitude is always nice. Its okay to be in a bad mood sometimes, but if everything we are together you just want to complain and bring the atmosphere down. Then I won't be hanging out with you.
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DepartmentOk5431 t1_jcbz776 wrote
Weed. Better than that.. good weed.
shawmahawk t1_jcbzvc8 wrote
Positive outlook is always number one. Following that, someone who is genuinely curious about the world.
Intelligent-Fuel-641 t1_jcc1ani wrote
A sense of humor, empathy, and a non-judgmental nature.
terribleinvestment t1_jcc1qji wrote
Quick to patience slow to shame
jasonking00 t1_jcc3bxo wrote
Right off the bat, someone that isn't a dope smoker or needs alcohol to have fun. Stay away for those types of people. It's cookie cutter behavior to the core.
Someone that is themselves and doesn't need to lie about things. Being genuine is the point.
ConstantAmazement t1_jcc6p8r wrote
Someone who is my wife!
yevizone t1_jcc9tkl wrote
My closest friends are the ones I can be completely myself around - no need to fake a smile or force small talk. They genuinely have my back no matter what, we laugh together often, and I can say anything without fear of judgement.
On a more general level, when I meet someone new or don’t know them as well, general positivity, don’t talk down to others, a good sense of humor, and (most importantly to me) not taking themselves too seriously.
autotelica t1_jccburb wrote
Easy-going, doesn't bitch and moan a lot, laughs easily, and keeps their judgy comments to a minimum.
Njtotx3 t1_jccchav wrote
Genuine interest, engaged listening, remembering things people tell you.
Old_timey_brain t1_jccdvqv wrote
Be interested, and be interesting.
TheFishBanjo t1_jccia6a wrote
For me, I like rapport.
It helps to be similar in terms of interests, mannerisms, speech, enthusiasm level, life outlook, etc.
_No_Pain_No_Gain t1_jccop3m wrote
Goodness
Manners
Integrity
Strife for self improvement
Zero victim mentality
Empathy
AlGeee t1_jccrmm2 wrote
gypsyoflove t1_jce4r2i wrote
I definitely like to hang out with out potheads
gypsyoflove t1_jce4uza wrote
I like to hang out with other potheads too 😁
fred_cheese t1_jcedgea wrote
In conversation, be knowledgeable in one or two things. Everything else, behave as if you don't know anything about it.
Defer to the other person's opinion.
Laugh and smile a lot but not so much they thing something is wrong with you.
Take the above with just a grain of salt. Or maybe less.
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sweetalmondjoy t1_jcoibde wrote
Someone who is optimistic, has a positive outlook on life, doesn’t take life too serious, likes to have fun, is respectful, has a good sense of humor, non judgmental, caring and empathetic
noperhapsyes t1_je8o8zg wrote
Empathy and humor. They are hard to beat together in most social situations.
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