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BXFXMIKE t1_isw54j6 wrote

Totally disagree! If you knew the person casually and never met the person who passed????

You would only ever start sourcing obituaries in your conciliatory comments for your own self importance.

Speak from the heart and move on. This is not the time to talk for the sake of talking.

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tookuayl t1_isw8oca wrote

Exactly! This is all about the person trying to make it about themselves. Ask something like, “is there a favorite memory that you have of them that you would like to share?” Perusing the obits for details on someone you know nothing about is just plain creepy.

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