Fun_Amount3063 t1_iud7mol wrote on October 30, 2022 at 1:18 PM

Reply to comment by TicklesPickles in LPT: Try to keep problems with you and your significant other between the two of you. by Pale_Perception_4927

People read it. It’s the second line that is cause for concern.

TicklesPickles t1_iud7vw0 wrote on October 30, 2022 at 1:20 PM

I mean, it certainly can be true. There are definitely vulturistic/opportunistic people who, when given insight into the pain points of someones relationship, might take advantage. I've seen it happen.

Fun_Amount3063 t1_iud89l5 wrote on October 30, 2022 at 1:24 PM

Yes it can happen but it’s statistically slim that your friends/family are actively trying to sabotage you and your romantic relationship.

Critical thought goes a long way.

TicklesPickles t1_iud8gx9 wrote on October 30, 2022 at 1:25 PM

Absolutely, thats where the friends you truly trust part comes in though. Thats the critical thought part. Some friends are good for sharing personal details with (in any capacity not just related to your relationship). Others well, aren't.

Edit: Also, idk about the part where OP says "dont understand" your relationship. Anyone who will cause an issue in your relationship in the way I am talking arent doing it because they dont understand. So idk what they mean by that.

Fun_Amount3063 t1_iud9llp wrote on October 30, 2022 at 1:35 PM

Look at you continuing to miss the cause of concern that has the comments going the way they are

TicklesPickles t1_iud9xdy wrote on October 30, 2022 at 1:38 PM

Are you one of those people that just likes to condescendingly argue with folks on the internet?

Edit: checked your post history and answered my own question, enjoy the rest of your day!