Dvscape t1_iuday0q wrote on October 30, 2022 at 1:46 PM

Reply to comment by CJ3795 in LPT: Try to keep problems with you and your significant other between the two of you. by Pale_Perception_4927

I'm 34 and have never discussed my relationships with any of my parents. What good could there come of it (other than venting, maybe)?

takeahike89 t1_iudfcmv wrote on October 30, 2022 at 2:20 PM

This is easily solved by having emotionally unavailable parents

2derpywolves t1_iue3wzr wrote on October 30, 2022 at 5:13 PM

I know from experience that this is true

insidiousFox t1_iufmacb wrote on October 30, 2022 at 11:18 PM

LMFAOOOO thank you for this! 🤣🫂

PhilosophicalPhuck t1_iudedfb wrote on October 30, 2022 at 2:13 PM

>What good could there come of it

mommy i hurty i need attentionsss

drsyesta t1_iuftt55 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 12:16 AM

Who tf would go to their parents for support? Cringe

Funandgeeky t1_iufqv91 wrote on October 30, 2022 at 11:53 PM

My family never knew I was going to get a divorce until two weeks after my ex had moved out. (It was amicable, but still divorce is never fun.) I refused to vent any issues I had with them and I stand by it. Even now, when I mention my ex I never say anything negative.

Far too many people run to their families because they want an echo chamber. And they want their family to help them gang up on the other person. And it's NOT a sign of a mature person and can signal that this is not a healthy relationship.