NormalPaYtan t1_iuj07j9 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:15 PM

Reply to comment by Important-Aside-507 in LPT: Men, solving math problems in your head while having sex can make you last WAY longer by [deleted]

>If you can’t last long enough to please your partner thats a YOU issue

And this LPT could be the solution - or are men not supposed to solve their problems/issues?

Important-Aside-507 t1_iuj0ld6 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:17 PM

I never said men didn’t have issues they couldn’t solve. I’m saying this is a deeper issue. If you cannot last long enough to please your partner that you go to counting, which is only going to distract you from pleasing your partner, then maybe you need to find help in a different place, that isn’t doing math.

NormalPaYtan t1_iuj2g7p wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:30 PM

Is there some kind of "straight camp" but for men who can't last in bed?

I can personally go on for a pretty long while if I focus on the "mechanics" of the sex (enough to please my wife), but if I adjust my mindset to focus on my own pleasure I cum in a matter of seconds - and if I didn't know how to jump between those mindsets I don't know what I would do.

Therefore I don't see how counting is in any way WORSE than premature ejaculation. Would you care to elaborate what your solution is?

Important-Aside-507 t1_iuj4kh5 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:44 PM

Exactly. You don’t distract yourself with math and numbers, you focus on your partner and making them happy. That’s all I mean to say. If I’m with someone who’s so busy trying to just last forever instead of making me happy, I’d be upset. It sounds like the goal is to last as long as possible instead of just make each other happy.